There is this girl in my office. I really really like her. She seems the shy type. Initially whenever our eyes met she would look away. I started showing interest in her and she too responded.The duration of eye contact grew longer and longer. I felt I saw genuine interest in her eyes. Then I guess I went a bit over board with the eye game. She seemed a bit nervy around me. I texted her, she did not reply. So I approached her near the lift to say sorry that it was not cool to text some one you hardly know. As I said excuse me...she totally freaked out like I had a gun to her head, almost bumped against the wall. That was really disheartening . So I said what I intended to partially and left. I thought its better to leave her alone, may be she is not interested. This continued for some time, she too avoided eye contacts . But then she started it again , having that genuine interest in her eyes. Finding reasons to make eye contacts, maintaining them.
This wasn't an isolated incident, she does this time to time. When ever I seem to give up, she does things which hold me back.So I texted her saying I wanted us to be friends and would love to know her better. Again no reply. I sent her a number of texts after that, once a week actually, I asked her on multiple occasions if she is in any way bothered by my messages, she can ask me to stop and I would. But she never replies.
Here after she seems more conscious about making eye contacts. She looks at me briefly as if to check I am liking or not and looks away. I texted her once she looked beautiful that day..the following week she looked very relaxed around me...it was good to see she wasn't nervy around me.The next week again I texted her something and she was back to her nervy self. Avoided eye contact. Then again out of the blue I got a missed call from her. I am sure she dialed it by mistake. But she has stored my number right. Why would she do that, what do you think? Should I forget her and move on?
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It's certain that she really likes you.
It must be that she's just slow in opening up to people who interests her.0