Me and this girl (who I haven't met, more penpals) got to know each other on text/phone and playfully flirted/talked.
However, I overreacted and removed her off Facebook/twitter. We had a text conversation about why and she called me "mature" in a sarcastic way, but I regretted that decision and I said I got the "wrong end of the stick and I was a fool", her reply was "Understatement".
So I sent this apology "I'm sorry if I hurt you by removing you like that, it was immature of me and was a mistake, I was inconsiderate. Been an idiot with you lately by overreacting and I realize that's still a big understatement... would like a chance to make things right again 'cos not knowing you isn't the option I want.. Hope you can forgive me, if not I understand.
It's been a week since I sent that and no reply, so wondered if it was a creepy/overtoned apology.
Later that night that I sent the apology, I sent her a friend request but she de-activated both her twitter/Facebook accounts, then re-activated them the day after (no idea why)
On Thursday, she wrote a tweet about getting 80% on an assignment and wanting to celebrate, so I replied "said you was clever!" and she favourited it (at least she didn't ignore me. wondering if she ever got my text now)
But I noticed later on after her favouriting my tweet, she set her Twitter to the privacy setting of "protect my tweets", which despite convenient timing of my reply, I was already following her anyway so not sure why she did that.
Thinking of leaving it a week and a half before sending a Facebook message like this "How’s grumpy been lately? Staying angry with me, or reckon you can raise me a smile? (Looks like this by the way --> :-) ). Don’t want to argue or fall out over something stupid, I shouldn’t have deleted you, I admit that.. but would like us to keep talking as we used to get along. What do you think?"
I do want to keep her as a friend, we've spoken for a few years and it was a silly mistake.
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no I don't think your apology is creepily overtoned.i think you did the right thing by apologizing in the first place. you know in your heart that you did a mistake so it's just right that you said sorry (: I think the girl is just hurt because you removed her off Facebook. she got hurt. and you must understand that. if you got removed by a friend too then you would probably feel the same. regarding the "tweets..again..hurt..hurt.hurt.. that's just it (: well, maybe..give a her a little space..maybe 3 days..well, if I was her I'd probably wanna be left alone for a while..maybe it's just me..haha but..maybe give it 3 days. then message her..then say what's in your hearts..like if you still wanna be friends with her..tell her that "if you don't wanna be friends with me anymore then I just hope you accpt my aplogy and thank you for the friendship." that's it.. (:
if after that she doesn't wanna be friends anymore ..then respect her decision.there are other people close to you who loves you and accepts you for who you are. good luck with everything (:1