Guys Only: Provided that the other person was up for it, would you bother to go out on a date with someone that you did NOT intend to sleep with (if they offered)?
- Yeah, sure.Vote A
- No way.Vote B
- Girls: I want to see the answer.Vote C
This is: "Would you date someone if you have ZERO intention of EVER having sex with them?"
I.e. If you get your way, you're never having sex with them. Even if they offer, you willingly decline.
Most Helpful Guy
I think most people answering this are unsure of what exactly you meant. I'm under the impression you meant going on a date with someone you would never have sex with, others think you meant not have sex with on the first date. I think most guys would answer that they wouldn't go on a date with someone they would never have sex with because then why are they on a date with them? Dating is meant for relationships and if you're not ever going to sleep with them then what are you doing? Better to just invite them out with or just as friends (I've done this, one on one but only as friends. I wouldn't consider it a date). My only exceptions for going on a date with someone I wouldn't ever sleep with is either to help a friend or... well I can't think of another reason right now.
Now for the idea others are thinking that would you go on a date with if you didn't intend to have sex with her on the first, I believe most guys would say yes. It isn't necessary at all to sleep with someone on the first date if the goal is dating them, but if it happens that isn't a bad thing either.
Be more specific in your questions so you don't create confusion like this.1