Met this guy on Saturday night, definitely interested in each other, we kissed and exchanged numbers. He texted me Sunday night for quite some time until he fell asleep and also on Monday morning morning (we're thinking of catching up on Friday). I then texted him on Monday night just to say goodnight.
It's Tuesday evening where I am now, haven't heard from him today and I don't know if I should text him today...how often should I text him? Is it ok to send him a text in the evening once a day to ask how his day was? I'm afraid that if I don't text him now and then he'll think I'm not interested.
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Aww... man it's back to these mind games again. Honestly, I don't care if my girl texts me everyday. (Okay, not every minute or hour, but at least once a day is fine with me.)
But if you want to be technical with the "gaming rules", you're suppose to text once or twice a week only, so that's like maybe one every two or three days. The texts should be small and sweet, simple yet flirty. It's to get your significant other thinking about you. And for you to not come off looking as desperate despite the fact that you really would want to be with that person as much as you can.
Or, worst case scenario is that the guy never received the text. As fictional as it may sound, it's actually true but it does happen rarely though.
Anyway, if I were you, just hold up on those texts for now since you've already put yourself out there quite a bit. He'll come around (assuming he likes you back) so no worries.1