we broke up and he told me to leave him alone for good. so I did. I'm not over him but I've finally come to terms with it and decided to text him one last time because we were together a long time (2 years) it just feels unfinished because he got so mad at me and I did what he told me to even though it was super hard. he hasn't tried to contact me since then so I realize he was serious. this was just supposed to be a kind of like a no hard feelings have a nice life thing. for my closure. I started off saying I'm not trying to talk again and I know you won't respond. I poured out all my feelings blahblahblah and ended it like I know you never loved me, and probly hate me now but you have to know that I don't hate you even though you did some bad things to me I forgive you. he didn't respond so I thought it was the end finally. then 3 days later he responds this exactly,"just got this my phone has been broke since the day before you sent it I don't hate you" why did he respond? why couldn't he just leave it? I didn't want him to say anything like he said he would if I talked to him.
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first of all he didn't have to text you back but he did ...now your wondering why he text you back at all when ever he said he didn't want to talk to you . your trying to read more into it then what it is . don't think (oh he text me back and he didn't have to maybe he will talk to me again ) he text you back because what happen with you and him was a long time ago and he is very over it if not he would have got in touch with you along time ago . you text him and now that he don't have the bad feelings anymore he responded back . that's all it was. I wouldn't push it for more contact with him either . also you said you was over him but you just needed closure however when someone needs closure that's just another way of saying your not over it . we as females are SO BAD about that . we always need closer from the man even if we know deep down what it is we never trust our own feelings and our own feelings are not good enough , we have to hear it from the guy . this is the worst thing you could do after a break up . sometimes guys won't even give a reason for leaving ( happen to me before to ) you just got to trust your own feelings and not rely on someone who hurt you to bring you closure . I hope you can move on from this guy and find someone who makes you happy . I think you still care about this guy but if there is any chance of that at all let him make the first move . you have already open up the door when you text him first . just leave it alone and if he text you again then take if from there but if not then just move on .0