I dated this chick for a month (we're mid 20s) before we stopped. Since then, we've had our ups and downs but we are talking again and seemingly closer than before. She stated weeks ago we are "just friends" and no longer dating.However, she has mentioned that she has thought about having me sleep over on occasions. Why would a girl be thinking this if she "feels no spark at all"? Not to mention, the last time we went out to the movies we were holding hands for a while before the movie started. A few days ago, we went out and she said she wanted me to stay over. I agreed and stayed with her for the night, during which we held helds quite a bit and we cuddled the entire night. Does she have feelings for me? If so, why would she deny and say otherwise? Logically, as a guy, it makes no sense. Mind you, the last serious relationship she had was years ago and she was very hurt when she broke up with her ex. Thanks for your thoughts!
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It seems to me like she is only protecting herself and she wants to find out everything she needs to before trying to see if you could build a relationship, my advice is to just go along with it and make sure she feels completely safe and trusts you, then she might open up and tell you if she really feels something but try not to fall for her to bad yourself else you might be the one that gets hurt if she really doesn't want anything, also if she's still being the same as this in a months time then confront her and tell her she can't keep messing around with you and you want a simple yes or no answer, she isn't trying to hurt or confuse you but I'm afraid that's always the case with situations like this, hope this helps.0