I chased the girl for a good amount a few years ago. Got a couple dates out of it, but after that she was trying to get rid of me.
Fast forward to now: I rarely initiate conversation with her, go out of my way to talk to her, don't respond to her texts (this is a big one...before I used to put so much thought into what I text her, now she'll text me sometimes and I won't even respond) and she's trying hard (or at least harder than before) to initiate things.
And we're in our mid twenties. Is this always how it is?
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You're showing more back bone now, by not being at her beck and call all the time.1