After 7 months of dating he says go slow

We are both in our late 50's, we are like hand and glove it's great until he falls off the earth. When things are going well and I sense feelings are starting he runs, becomes distant. When he drinks he is more relaxed and himself affectionate, kind, but when he is sober he might as well give me a handshake and I had a nice night. What is up with this man? We have both been single 8 - 10 years. At this time in our lives I can't believe it is just a game like back in the days of our 20's -30's. I told him I had feelings for him, but, I did not say I love you. I don't want to get married again, I don't think that is part of his plan either. He freaked out, said go slow, you're asking me to give up my single life and make a commitment. I didn't think telling him I had feelings said all that.


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  • You should just give him space and let him work your relationship out.

    • thank you. That's what I think too.

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