I'm 18 and I've never been kissed before, neither had a boyfriend. My friends think I'm being stupid for wanting to have my first kiss with a special guy and they think I'm wasting my life away by thinking this way.
I want a love story like in the movies or fairy tales and people think I'm strange because of it. Also a lot of people think it's stupid that I don't hook up with guys whenever we go out.
Do you think I'm being stupid or I should wait for a special guy to give my first kiss to?
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Yes and No. There is absolutely nothing wrong with waiting if your willing to wait forever. The problem with people who say that they are waiting is that many times they will have relatively unrealistic and often high standards for partners and relationships as a whole. An example of this is you wanting a love story like in the movies. Sure it is possible, but that is only one part of a relationship. Relationships are not always rainbows and butterflies. Many inexperienced people don't fully appreciate the effort it takes throughout the good /highs and bad/lows of a relationship. If you are realistic and are willing to actively find the right guy for you instead of waiting for him to magically come sweep you off your feet then I say do what you want too.
In my personal experience with girls I would personally advise you to get it over with. Finding the right partner works best through trial and error. You will rarely find a person who is so open that you will know everything about them. Very few people are the finished article. Trusting someone in a relationship takes time. Relationships teach you so many life lessons as you grow , you help each other grow and you truly learn what you like and don't like/want about the the opposite sex1