so there's this guy and he's really cute and sweet and we have a lot in common, but there are some problems. we are NOT dating but he acts as if I'm already his girlfriend and is extremely jealous. we have been having a fling for a little less then a month now, but I can't physically get close to him. Every time we kiss I feel like he is eating my face and that INSTANTLY turns me off. I always have to wipe my face after because he's sloppy and its a total kill to my vibe. it just makes me not want to kiss him...and I just don't know what to do! lately I've been avoiding him because of it. someone help!
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Kissing is an art, just like making love. Each person likes to be touched a very specific way and kissed a specific way.
The men who know how to kiss generally mimic the woman who is kissing them. If she's kissing soft, he's supposed to kiss soft back, etc.
However, this is not always the case. Sometimes women want a man to kiss HARD, and her kissing soft is just her being too shy to initiate the hard kiss.
Yes I have even had women tell me they like the devowering kiss. I've even had women beg me to punch their boobs. PUNCH THEIR BOOBS during sex! Am I going to suddenly start doing this every-time I have sex with another woman from now on?
NO of course not.
Telling him and showing him what you like is what you should do. Men are not mind readers.
We either can guess based on your reaction, and reading your body (because past experience tells us nothing except women have different preferences) So your best option with ANY boyfriend is to show them how you like it.
OR you can just hope he guesses right which is what most women do.
Show him and that solves this problem.