is it that some women prefer going to a bar or lounge for a date and some don't. or that girls would go to a bar or lounge with some guys but would prefer something else with other guys.
should going out for drinks at night be a first date or a second date? or is it a bad idea altogether?
also, do you assume the guy just wants to go there to get you drunk and have sex (not my intention) or do you see it as a fun way to unwind?
i mean a more modern chic more loungey type place with neon lights and stuff
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I would say that going out for drinks is probably not the best first date idea...In my experiences all guys that have taken me out for drinks on a first date have tried taking me to their place afterwards...although those might not be your intensions, if the girl has had similiar experiences to mine, then she might feel that you just want sex from her; thus she will probably have her guard up. If you wanna go for drinks then I suggest maybe Starbucks or a coffee shop or even ice cream is a great first date :) drinks is good for second date or even later :)
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