I started dating this amazing guy. Ea. date I learn more about him and I realized how smart and knowledge he is. He is doing very well with himself.
I on the other hand is also a very confident woman. I have no problem having various conversations with my friends and guys I am not all that into.
I am usually bubbly, chatty, giggly and flirty when out with others. these guys find me attractive and falls for me.
With him, I feel very uncomfortable, nervous and still feel very shy, embarrassed in front of him especially when the conversation surrounds topics that are highly intellectual or sexual...i turn all red and can't come up with anything to say.
there are things I can talk about, but I am just not as easy going in front of him.
i fear that this would hurt the development of the relationship and that he might find me boring after awhile. I have told him that I am nervous even after knowing him for a month...but he seem to love teasing me and making me blush...but I don't like that I am not comfortable acting myself..i want to.. I want to be that confident, happy, bubbly lady that I am in front of him...
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The thing with those types of guys, myself included, is that we treasure intellectuallity, if someone knows more about a subject than we do then we will listen very attentively to that person until we have learned about the subject. We know deeply that other people might know more than us on many subjects, but we are always open to listening, unless you stumbled on the know-it-all version which is all about talking. As you might have noticed we often times find people boring, but if the person is respectful and talks about things they enjoy doing or picture their vision of the world. They can be as interesting as people who are very intellectual.
Personally, I don't like talking to people who are loud and mock others as a joke just to make themselves feel important. I'm humble enough to admit I make mistakes, but one thing I'm not is arrogant to others. For your bubbly personality, it will pop-out once you feel more comfortable about the guy. I've dated a girl like that at first she would turn tomato red and mumble half her words in a sentence, then as she got more comfortable, after the 4th date I think, she talked so much I had a hard time keeping up with the verbal roaller coaster ride. I had to repeat 3/4 of the stuff she said just to confirm I understood what she meant.0