Why text someone if you know they have a boyfriend?

It is a childhood neighbor, and I don't want to be rude because of that. He knows I have a boyfriend of about 4 months, that I knew a long time back, and that the relationship is serious. My neighbor showed interest in me before, and he keeps randomly sending me messages. I have told him that I have a boyfriend. I don't want to talk to him, but I don't know how to politely make him back off, other than ignoring his messages.


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  • Say "hey I don't want things to get all complicated between us so maybe we shouldn't text as much"

    • Yeah, that could be a good idea. Simple but not harsh.

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    • i wish you were my girlfriend :-)

    • :)

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What Guys Said 1

  • Friendship purposes.


What Girls Said 1

  • since he won't listen,have your boyfriend tell him. Its not rude since he is disrespecting your relationship after you already told him

    • Yeah, my boyfriend has already made a comment that he could say something. He knows how I feel about the situation.