Guy I'm hooking up with doesn't care

So I've been dating this guy since December..on and off.

we hooked up a few months after we met and preceded to do so up until now, I'm at a transitional phase in my life and want to get rid of bad habits. I was considering if I should ditch him or not because I honestly don't know too much about him. whenever we met up we would mostly just small talk because we don't have anything in common.

last night

him: you in town?

this morning

me: yup

me: what classes did you sign up for?

*hours later no response*

me: I don't appreciate being ignored

him: sorry I was at work all day. did you sign up for classes?

me: yeah

him: what classes did you sign up for?

me: x and y

me: hmm, if I dated other guys, would that bother you?

him: you can do whatever you want

me: so you don't care?

him: nope

me: I'm sorry... I had fun but I don't think this is going to work out.

was it rude to send this to him via text?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • What? I think you should have talked to him in person or at least called him in the phone before taking action/

    cuz you'll be able to catch a glimpse of his feelings at least.


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What Guys Said 2

  • it's not as messed up as you'd think. you'd be able to tell if he cared. he didn't, so it wasn't rude on your part. he isn't taking hard. at least...i don't think he is. he could be like me and suppress his emotions.

  • It's not rude at all.


What Girls Said 3

  • He was being extremely rude ditch him.

  • no it wasen't at all he just wanted to have what he whant from you then the rest don't matter for him just to have s**

  • no you were not rude since he couldn't be bother