So there is this girl her name is Natalie. We work together during summers. Long story short we kinda liked each other last summer but for some reason her friend and twin sister thought I was gay. I am not... although it probs seems a little gay I'm going to the internet for advice lolz. Anyways, I got a snapchat and she snapchatted me. We have been talking for about a week and then yesterday she asked me if I could tutor her for math this weekend. I said yes and then she sent a text saying she was tired. Then I sent her a text saying "Alright well I will let you get some sleep then, try not to dream too much about me ;)" Then she sent me a text saying "I am not going to bed yet and what makes you think ill dream of you? ;)" Then I said "Why wouldn't you? ;)" and then she sent me a text after I went to sleep. The next morning I went on to check her twitter and she had a post saying "Try not to dream about too much #foreverdying #her friend" Then her friend said HAHAHA I'm litterally laughing in class. Then she said "I'm pretty sure everyone that I have encountered today thinks I'm high but I'm not"
Then a couple hours later she sent me a text saying "I hope you have a lot of patience Because I was trying to do the hmwk and I have a lottt of questions".
Anyways, I am wondering what I should do. I know it was a stupid text line, but my wonder is whether I still have any chance with her? Also, should I still tutor her? If so, should I ask her to dinner after? Please be honest, I have pretty thick skin ha ha and I won't care if you insult me in any way
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Uh oh! Friend zone! And she is using you and laughing with her friends about your pick up line. Girls do that.
You can either accept the deiend zone or be straight forward and say, "look, I like you a lot and I want more than what you think you want from me."
And chances aee since she put you in thia position of being friends, she is hoing to deny you.
So you have to man up and stop doing things for her and syop saying sappy things that you hear in romance movies.
Make her miss you, dammit!
Then start flirting with other hirls but don't rub it in her face. That will make it obvious. Have her accidentally catch you being a flirt or paying attention to other girls.
Then she will feel as important anymore and she will be chasing you instead of you chasing her. And you my friend will take her off of the pedestal.
When you chase anyone, most likely they will run away unless they are completely desperate.
If you reach out, then she will get interested in a more romantic level than just platonic.
Reach out by not doing favors for her and reversing what she is doing. And like I said, you do that and she will see you in a different light.0