My ex fiance and baby's father broke up with me a couple weeks ago and he's already dating. Is there anything I can do to help him understand this is a family not just a person he broke up with.
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This is what happens when women sleep with men just to have sex. If you don't at least THINK he would be a good dad, has good morals, treats you proper, etc, then ya probably shouldn't sleep with him . . . You are paying the price for making this mistake. He was an ass before you slept with him and you aren't going to change that now. All you can to is make the best of YOUR situation. It's YOUR body that pays the price of a child and ultimately it will be your responsibility to raise that child, if you weren't responsible enough to pick a decent partner in the first place. May sound harsh but it's the damn truth. My mother raised my brother for 5 years before she met my Dad because she made a poor decision. We all mess up, sh*t happens, but this is ultimately your problem now, not his. It's only his problem if he chooses to make it be so. Get child support and move on.0