I'm in my early 20s and looking for an older man (15 years max), and I can't meet any single ones anywhere. I'm either at my retail job (where most men that come in there are married/paired off or under 25 and thus snooty/uninterested), girlie outings with friends, or I'm in my female-dominated courses at school. Bars and clubs are fun but most guys there just want sex for one night then to forget about you forever.
So, now I'm online and chatting with the more mature crowd, going on real dinner dates that the younger men refuse to do (I'm the girl who always wants to go Dutch). Why is it such a pathetic route to take, when you simply don't meet the right bachelors in real life? And no, I'm not fat, ugly, or a bitch...
Most Helpful Guy
I also wanna mention is.. speaking as a guy in his early 30's, I honestly can't see myself dating a woman your age. Not that I'm saying 20 year olds are bad people its more about having things in common. And also I guess I'm afraid of people looking at me as if I was a creepy old man. But then again, what do I know? All the gals I've been with were either my age exact or one or 2 years younger.
You sound like a really great catch and I really do think you need to give yourself a chance in this world. Life is too short! Granted I've dated some real "winners" and had a bad attitude as a result but I'm a changed person now. Not everyone is the same. I've suffered from low self worth all of my life and am working on getting it changed.
I guess one of the primary reasons is why I'm against the big age difference is this news story I saw last year. Not sure if you saw it, but this teacher is california who is in is early 40's left his wife for an 18 year old student! That just really distrubed and repulsed me. But I'm just one human being with views. Again, do what you feel is right for you, just giving my 2 cents1