I met this really hot guy online and we went on 2 dates. After the second date, we went in the hot tub, and naturally it led to sex. Not at first, but I thought about it, and I what like "what the hell, have a little fun." Is that bad? Like, do I still have a chance at having a relationship with him, or should I just move on to the next guy? He's younger than me. But, he's also been married before. So, it's kind of a complicated issue. He still talks to me and we have a 3rd date set up.
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First, there are no 'rules'.
Second, having sex fast doesn't drive guys away. What drives guys away is lack of personality, lack of intelligence, or clinginess. Some girls try to maeke up for lack of intelligence or lack of personality by having sex fast, and that's where this myth has come from that having sex fast drives a guy away. But girls like that would drive guys away even faster if they didn't give them sex.
Many of my female friends have sex very fast. But they're able to keep their guys.1