So I went out on this first date with this girl last month, we met online and I had a very playful and fun conversation with her online; we really vibed off each other so met up in person the next day and we had a good time, she kept telling me how we have a lot in common. I said back "Yeah but not in a like a creepy way." I also noticed how she kept justifying herself for me, even saying things like I normally would never do this or this would never happen where I would meet someone from online so fast. Anyways, I leaned over and I kiss her and she said "I saw that coming." After we kissed she told me "Sorry I'm shy about these things." We sorta of laughed and I while I was walking her back to her car she told me "We should hang out again" I said of yeah before I left she leaned in and kissed me. I said I would text her later. So I texted her the day after, but she still hasn't responded. Well I ran into her at her job a few days ago she looked scared to see me and she told me on Facebook, that she was scared of the whole online dating thing and that's why she got rid of her profile. She also said not message her again like if I was a stalker or something. I realize that there were a TON of guys who must have hit on her and they must have creeped her out. But why did she go from hot to cold like that. I mean she really can't compare me "guys online" since we met right? I even asked her and she said "Better safe than sorry." What did I do wrong? Why was she totally comfortable with meeting at first then after our initial meeting AFTER we kissed she got all like that? I never expect this at all!
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Man you did nothing wrong. Some girls will jus play the little love game with you to test you out. but I'm gonna assume that she was an OK person since you found interest in her. Maybe when you were with her, it hadn't hit her that she was meeting up face to face with someone she met online. I guess the concept of it could have freaked her out.
most people don't imagine that they will find true love online. since the online world is known to be a little crazy, maybe that scared her a little and she thought it'd b in your best interests not to continue with each other.2