Okay to make a long story short, we met online I'm 22 and he'll be 27 in November and we've been talking and messaging each other every so things were going pretty good. But a lot of times, we wouldn't catch each other on the website at the same time so we agreed to exchange numbers so we can text each other. He lives in the Bronx and I live in another state but I'm from NJ so even waaaay before I met him, I always tried to make plans to move back to NJ but now that I have a way to move back we agreed to meet each other once I move back.
Anyway we decided to talk on the phone for the very first time and conversation went well but ever since then, wouldn't call me anymore but would only have brief texting conversations and sometimes I would text him and he wouldn't respond. But when we do talk on the phone now, he's very quiet and and would say he has to call me back for some reason but will never return my calls but will text me little sweet messages in the morning (well sometimes and sometimes during the day) but will still call me "boo" or "sweetheart" and little names like that.
So is he playing games or is uninterested in me. Because in the beginning, he seemed to be very interested in me.
Should I tell him about it or just stop answering his texts?
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Its important to let him know how you are feeling and then see how he reacts. If he's being shady then there is probably a reason. Maybe he's keeping something from you, maybe he's really shy, maybe he is playing games... whatever the reason you need to let him know.
If it doesn't change then you know he isn't that serious and you should let him know you're not going to play games and stop replying.0