normally the girls I date I already know as like friends before hand, but my friend is trying to hook me up with his roommate and I really want it to work Because she's cute and seems like a fun person (from what I've heard)
so any ideas on things to talk about. I figured we'd just go to the beach and hang out for a while, (should I change my idea for the date?)
I realize it could depend on the girl so ladys just say what you would like to talk about/ where youd like to go for first date
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It's best not to keep a bunch of specific questions because you'll be more likely to freeze up. Conversation should flow naturally, but here are a few things to keep in mind.
Make sure it doesn't turn into an interview (you ask a question, she answers, you ask another, she answers, etc). The best thing to do is...I can't think of how to explain this properly at the moment lol...but basically you want to use the word "we" more, if that makes sense. So for example, if she tells you a story about some other country she's been to, you could say something like "Yeah, I've always wanted to go to Europe. We should totally win the lottery and go on a Eurotrip sometime." And then talk about what y'all would do in Europe. It helps put her in the mindset of the two of you together.
Another thing you can do if you find yourself looking for something to talk about is play the question game. Basically, you take turn asking each other questions, you can't repeat any questions that the other person asked, and if you don't want to answer you can say pass (that last part is just to make her feel more comfortable). It's a pretty easy way to turn things sexual as well.
Last thing to remember is not to be afraid of silences. You don't have to be talking the entire time, and most girls will appreciate a guy who they can just have a comfortable silence with. A lot of guys think silences are awkward, but if you don't, she won't.
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