Ok so I work with a doctor, he is 27 and only started at my work a few months ago. I'm 37 and work part time on admin and am also a uni/college student. He is according to a few women I know 'gorgeous'. He is quite reserved at work. Almost a bit awkward, not the type to chat like others. So anyway I wasn't interested to start off with but he would get quite shy when talking to me and I'm positive he would stare at me sometimes. He is 6 ft and I'm 5 ft. Maybe I'm a bit of a curiousity to him. People say I'm pretty but I'm not one to put myself out there because I've had self acceptance issues with how I look so I always have self doubt that I'm attractive. So anyway to cut a long story short my crush was driving me crazy so one day after work I sent him a text saying I had a huge crush on him and it was driving me crazy and I need to get back to my normal life so he needed to let me know how he felt. I did this because he had changed towards me in the previous few days, it was like had lost interest. Was my text to him a backhanded compliment? Anyway he responded he didn't feel the same but admires my put it out there attitude. I'm pretty shy with guys so it was such a huge step for me and I felt so sad. Anyway he still looks does he like me? Or am I just clueless when it comes to men?
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There could be some attraction there, yes. However, he might not want to date someone he works with. Most people are iffy when it comes to that. Sorry to hear about the rejection, as time goes on, you'll get over. =)1