i really like this guy and we were playing 20 questions while texting and he asked if I have ever self harmed, so I said yes and after that he hasn't talked to me much... he's been ignoring me. I think I scared him off with the fact that I self harm. I want to be with him so badly but I don't know if he can accept that fact about me...
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il tell you a little bout myself to answer your question:)
i used to self harm, about 3 years ago, I had 2 best friends who were both guys, and both happened to like me which I didn't know... and they knew that I was self harming. one of them got sick of it tho and he broke off our friendship. [similar to the guy in your case I guess, but less obvious]
a year after id stopped I was fortunate enough to have someone love me, and I told him everything bout myself. he accepted me even knowing that I went through self harm and wev been together for a year and a half now.
basically, it does depend on the guy and how well they can cope with it. a man will support u, look after you and trust that you won't go back to it- and even if you do he will still have your back. a guy whos a wuss about it though isn't emotionally strong himself and wouldn't b able to handle it as well. as long as uv tried to get over it or have done so already, he should admire you for having gone through such a time and gotten out on top=] hope this helps x
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