I met a shy, sweet, not arrogant guy in a club just over a week ago. We danced, for a few minutes, I had to leave, kissed (I don't usually, chemistry lol), started leaving, he asked for my number. A week later/48 hours ago I got a text asking "who's this". I replied my name, he replied that he was just making sure it was the right number etc and he was that drunk guy annoying me a while ago. Anyway, I said he wasn't annoying he was talking to me all day, finding out about each other etc. Asked what I was up to this week, said I might be out tomorrow night and he said he might be too and maybe we'll see each other. I replied "maybe we will, would be nice". Does he sound interested or just being polite? I recently got out a relationship (3 years) so new to all this! I really like him and want to meet again. I'm 20 he's 22. I'm up for making first moves etc if I know he's interested. Would I look needy if I text him? I don't even know what I would say, but hey lol!
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Chemistry? I will tell you what my daughter told my younger son when we were talking about casual sex... You have 2 people, and some tequila, and 9 months later a baby is born. LOL
I say wait it out be polite when he approaches you, but don't go after him. And for goodness sake don't sleep with him yet. It will cloud your ability to think rationally like you are doing now.
IF A MAN WANTS YOU THEY WILL COME AFTER YOU. IF YOU CHASE THEM THEY WILL THINK ITS OK TO USE YOU FOR THEIR OWN OBJECTIVES.0