Why do women never give average or below average looking guys a chance? (Page 2)
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Jesus how many times does this question come up on here!
Another tale of woe regarding a man struggling to attract the type of woman he thinks he deserves
Yawn don't care.
I wouldn't know I don't go searching for these types of questions.
Anyone who logs on to this website once a month would see this recycled question hovering somewhere around the first page. Why don't you try dating less attractive women and then see how retarded this question is
I would still get rejected no matter what she looked like.
If you haven't got confidence in yourself then how do you expect a girl to have confidence in you
Confidence is a made up word that girls say to ugly guys, not to give up.
You need to stop letting women define your life
Women are shallow creatures who go for looks when young but will date ugly, old and below average looking men if they have lots of money but men like this who are poor never date and remain single for live even if they have nice personalities!
Well some girls do like guys like the second pic. I think its really just about the kinda guy each individual girl is attracted to. So those guys just have to find the right girl. the others aren't even worth it if they won't give you a chance :)
The second pic was from a website when I typed in ugly guys on google so it showed up.
Yeah, I figured. lol But I was just saying, if they don't even give you a chance then they aren't worth it.
Also that guy really wasn't "ugly", he's not my "type", but he's not ugly.
Anytime a girl says a guy's not her type that usually means he's ugly.
sigh at the assertion that "that guy wasn't ugly". Prepared to back it up by saying you find him attractive? No, of course not. Why resist biological essentialism in such bad faith? Make believe for the sake of pretense at morality.
Just because he's not really my type doesn't mean I have to think he's ugly. I think some of the Jersey Shore guys are HOT, but they aren't my type either. lol And I know plenty of girls who that IS there type(the guy in the pic).
Just get with a prostitute if you want to get with a girl so badly
You can pay her to say you're the best looking guy she's been with or the biggest lol
Has it ever occurred to you to go after below average looking women?
What difference does that make? I'm still gonna get turn down. And why is it OK for girls/women no matter how ugly they think their somehow entitled to a Brad Pitt lookalike.
How would you know you're going to get turned down if you haven't tried? and how could you possibly know what women think they're entitled to? There are billions of women in the world, all with different ideas as to what 'attractive' means. Sometimes it's looks, sometimes it's status, sometimes it's money, sometimes it's intelligence or niceness or bravery.
In our society, looks are important. If you don't have them, find someone who is equally unattractive. Why should we settle if you won't?
Im just saying the majority of women believe they deserve a Brad Pitt lookalike. I have nothing going for me. I'm ugly, I live off a (Social Security Income), and have a learning disability what women on this earth wants to date a moron? And I'm also not funny around women I don't know.
And again, how do you know what most women believe? And, with everything you've just admitted about yourself, why have you decided looks are the problem?
What kind of learning disability do you have, and how severe is it? Plenty of people with learning disabilities have perfectly happy relationships.
I don't know what kind I have, but no woman will date a guy who doesn't have some type of college degree. And even if they said yes they would deep down its bull.
What do you mean you don't know what kind you have? How do you know you have a learning disability of you haven't been diagnosed?
It sounds like it's not women that are the problem, it's your complete lack of self-esteem.
I was tested back in 07 I've always had trouble with school. I was always put in special needs classes. And even then I still had some trouble with school. And women still wouldn't date me even if I had confidence.
That isn't about 'average looking guy' thus.
Thus... what? Come on, don't leave us hanging.
This is completely untrue here in ireland. Ireland isn't known for its great looking lads but the girls are very pretty usually. So you see average guys with pretty girls all the time, this is because the main thing we look for is if he is funny, so if you have the take no prisoners sarcastic humour that us irish love, you would have no problems. But see, dating isn't really a thing here, it would be quite weird for you to ask a girl you didn't know on a date.
they do you are just being whiny instead of going for girls.
It doesn't matter what girls I go after I still get turned down.
how do you approach them?
I haven't approached a girl in years the last one I did, turned out to be a bitch. So now I'm afraid to approach. But If I did I would just say hi and get laughed at.
hahaha why would we give a guy who isn't good looking a chance ?
@kallsen what a shallow answer to give. God Forbid the guy isn't a Justin Bieber douche bag lookalike.
@kallsen Haha speak for all girls 😆.
It's all about proportions. Proportions are what make an individual person attractive.
Proportions? You mean 95% of the hot guys get dates? While the other 5 % are not hot but most likely rich?And didn't you mention your Boyfriend is a 6'4 Blond Swimmer?
He's 6'5, but that doesn't give you a right to discredit my answer. He has good facial proportions. If your eyes are too close together/far apart, you're not going to be as attractive as someone whose eyes are normal, make sense? There have been studies that show that proportions are what determines physical attractiveness.
Ok he's 6'5 and what you mean by facial features you mean he's really good looking? At least tell me that. So basically if I were crossed eyed I wouldn't be good enough for a women with normal eyes? How does that not come off shallow? There's this girl I once saw with a gap between her teeth for some reason I found that cute.
That's not what I mean. link
All they did in that link was change his proportions. One is more attractive than the other, no? That's what I mean.
Confidence is not a sham. If you think there's a girl that only the first guy can date and the second can't, then you just don't have the confidence and understanding of women needed.
Stop making excuses for your lack of success.
How I'm I making excuses when it the truth? Not all guys are bursting with confidence and we all can't be good looking. I use to have this fake word people call confidence but when I did show it, I still got turned down. Lets face facts women only want good looking guys and will never admit to it.
Then how do you explain why comedians always end up with hot wives and girlfriends? Go and google a pic of John Oliver and his wife, and then come back and tell me that women only want good looking guys.
Its called being funny and rich that's how, he got a wife.
Listen to yourself! F***! Who cares about your looks!?, why on earth would anyone want to hang around someone so pessimistic about life and have so little motivation to make things better for himself?
A lot of people care about looks, that's what makes some people get dates and others single. You really believe Bill Gates would be married if he wasn't worth $50 billion dollars? The only way I'm ever getting a Girlfriend is if I'm rich, good looking or both.
And I'm here to tell you that you're wrong.
How I'm I wrong? I bet if you did a poll and asked 1,000 women would they date Bill Gates if he wasn't rich? They would probably say no.
That's exactly where you're wrong!
You ask 1000 women if they'd go on a date with someone that was extremely intelligent, driven, ambitious, has quirky sense of humor and dedicated to pursuing his dream of making a difference in the world, I bet he wouldn't be short on options.
I'm talking on his looks like face wise?
I give you an example of someone that's ugly, you complain that they're funny and rich.
I give you an example of someone that's not rich or funny, you find something else to complain about.
Thank you.
It's because there are people like you in this world that make me seem like a catch to the all the awesome, intelligent, funny and incredibly hot women out there.
Easy for you to say girls/women find you attractive. I've never been attractive to girls. Every time I walk into a store I, get girls walking away from me like I'm so kind of freak but if a good looking guy walks in its Hi if you have any questions please ask. Do you have any idea what that makes me feel like? I once had some girl talk sh*t about me while I was at a store and it wasn't good either.
I am not even answering the question because it is stupid as hell. Also, you have to make yourself attractive and not base it off of looks. Finally, if your so bitter towards girls. Then you might as well go gay.
because women want to have good looking children. evolution.. duh
If you had a good looking daughter, you'd be over protective about boys that want to date her. Good looks comes with a price.
I would still rather her be over protected and have options than to struggle socially and in relashionships because of something as simple as looks.
Why do you ask a question that assumes something that is not true?
I give guys a chance based on their intelligence, sense of humor, ambition etc. And looks is so subjective...
Maybe it is true and girls just deny it?. And if the guy isn't intelligent, funny or rich he won't get anywhere even if he was ugly because all girls want is a good looking smart rich guy.
hugh hefner is ugly and rich, girls like him, Rowan Atkinson (Mr. Bean) is ugly and funny, girls like him, and omg, Mick Jagger has so many girls after him, and no one will tell me he's good looking.
If girls are not into you, it's surely not because you're bad looking. Maybe there is something else about you that they don't like? (I guess it's all those stereotypes)
All those guys you just mentioned are rich duh, of course women are gonna date and marry them. When it comes to $$$$ women will still date u.
Looks aren't everything. It took me years to realize this.
yeah... decades lol
When I want to flirt with guys I don't just focus solely on their looks. Personality counts too!
no, I thinkt he ones that you shose are the ones who are not worth it so just try to see which girls are
I agree women should give more guys a chance.
Looks like 8 feminists voted you down sorry dude.
Yeah LOL!
I don't know for sure, but perhaps some women look at outer looks only and not other variables.
never say never. I have given plenty of "plain" or "average" guys a chance. but I was majorly dissed. plain guys can be jerks too. eoe
What does eoe mean? And maybe those plain or average guys were jerks, because they believed that's what women want? After all look at all the good looking guys women date? Their usually jerks of course their good looking too. And trust me I'm to ugly for a women.
equal opportunity employer. I am sure you are not ugly. I rarely find any human to be ugly. mom always said "pretty is, is pretty does". so even really beautiful men can be ugly when they are jerks. you can't stereotype cause it isn't fair. with a nice shave, hair cut and clothing selection it makes ordinary seem extraordinary. hit the gym, learn new things, go to a museum. just be happy.
Nope not buying it.
Trust me I'm ugly.
then you didn't ask this questions for true answers but pity. peaceand blessings to u!
What the hell are you talking about I asked this question for pity? If I say I'm ugly I really meant it? Why is that so hard to believe?
I am tired of this question, I do give average guys a chance, I fall for personalities
Maybe you do? But when I go out all I, see is good looking guys with girls but never average, or below average guys with girls?
I do...It's not about looks it's about personality and kindness.
eh.. sometimes it is about looks too sorry
because you're looking at the wrong girls luv