so my boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago for good because he cheated and I can't forgive him. he's my best friend though, and we'd been together for 2.5 years, and best friends before that. is it ok for us to hang out as friends? I made it clear to him that that's as far as we go, and he got upset but said "fine". so is it ok to? please help!
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Ok, this is going to sound harsh, but in reality you HAVE to look at it this way! if you think he's your best friend, and was your boyfriend, do you really think he would cheat on you? the answer is NO, and obviously (this is going to hurt) he probably doesn't have the same respect for you as you do for him. You need someone better in your life who treats you great, and will never do that to you or even consider that!
You were and are completely hurt about this situation (anyone would be), but you simply must think about yourself and give your self some confidence. You are not his "back up" where he can do whatever he wants and return to you whenever he wants, that is BS and you know it. I wouldn't even want to be friends with this guy, or let alone even see him at all! Cut off all contact, do not contact him AT ALL!
He needs to learn what he did, and the only way is by not giving him ANY attention at all!1