Lets say you been dating a guy for a month now, hr lives
40 minutes away from you. You guys have been on 3 dates
He drove 40 minutes to see you...
But this time he wants you to drive by his house to see him...
I feel like I shouldn't have to drive late on the highway to see him,
When we are not even official yet. Plus the fact that we are going to be
By his apartment is turning me off, I don't want him to think he could
Take me home and f*** me... so I simply said No!
With all honesty what do you guys think? Am I wrong or is he ?
Most Helpful Girl
Lol what the hell? So, you're telling me you don't want to drive to meetup with a guy you've been seeing, but you want him to take time out his life to. Wasting time, effort, and gas money? That doesn't make sense to me. He nor you are in a relationship, but he's still attempting to make things work if he's coming so far away and you guys are only dating. If you don't feel the need to make a 40 minute drive to see him, then neither should he, it would only make sense. Seems like he's putting in more work than you.1