So weird question... if a guy sends a message to a girl he likes on an online dating site, chances are he will not get a reply unless she has some interest too. Therefore, is it sufficient for them to just send a wink, click yes, etc. to save time, knowing that if the girl is interested at all she will message him? Or does him sending the first message actually contribute to the odds of her taking notice and/or making her more interested?
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I've talked to several women who have used these sites and they all say the same thing. It is rare that a woman receives a message that is thoughtful and interesting. Most guys send sexual/vulgar messages or they send generic boilerplates like "hey how are you".
Also, don't wink. Just put on a pair of balls and send an awesome message.0