How long should I wait to text him, and what do I say?

I like a guy two years older than me, who I have only seen only 4 or so times in the last year very briefly, although every so many months we text TONS. It isn't a hardcore crush or anything, although Since I saw him a few weeks back at a friends party I'm thinking about him lots! I tried to Facebook message him, but he 'saw it' and didn't reply, which sucked because it took some courage to initiate it.

How long should I wait to text him, and at that point what can I say to hint I wanna hang out to see if this could lead somewhere, without sounding desperate in case the feelings are not mutual. And does the non replied fb message hint at anything?


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  • If he was interested, he would have messaged back. Is there a possibility he has a girlfriend?

    • Nope! He has no girlfriend, or gal of interest. :(

    • Well don't message him out of the blue again. Wait untilyou hear about the next gathering, and then ask if he's going.

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