I have found that after a few weeks of dating/ texting, it tends to get boring and I feel like I can't win. If I don't respond within a few hours the conversation dies completely, but if I respond right away I am too available to the guy and he gets bored.
I'd much rather hang out or talk than text but it is so difficult to get the guy to initiate plans. They talk all day about how much fun they have with me and how much they miss me , but won't propose plans. I want him to be super excited about seeing me, and I want him to know that I am, and my time is valuable and that he needs to work for me (even if I really like him).
What should I do to make a guy a. Have fun when texting me and 2. Make him miss me and want to make plans?