There's this shy guy that I think likes me (always supportive of what I say when we do talk, defends me at the slightest hint of others being mean to me, stares, smiles around me sometimes, helps me out, etc.) The only thing is, he will never text first. He did months ago but only a few times and far between. But now he doesn't at all. The only thing I've noticed I'm doing wrong is I've been sending mixed messages in person. I don't approach him to make conversation in groups, but I can talk to any other guys in front of him because I'm more comfortable with guys I'm not interested in. I'm afraid, however, this could be interpreted as interest in those other guys in his eyes. What should I do? Should I text him first? and if so, how many times does it take for him to start initiating? What do I even text him about? Help!
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You really should make the attempt to talk to him in person because the ultimate show that a girl likes you, is actually seeing her enjoy being with you in person. Just talk to him about school, work, life, anything that shows him you're interested in his life. AND FLIRT~ Obviously not too strongly because you may scare him off or he may think you aren't being serious about it but it'll hopefully get through. Texting is really impersonal! Let him know that you want to talk to him the next time you see him (make up some reason to talk to him).2