the story is complicated so here what you might need to know to help me :
I broke up with the guy that I truly cared about and even loved ( we dated for 7 months ) it's been almost a month now . He made me do it because he kept on doing the same thing that I hate : ignoring my messages and not bother texting for days..
Anyway , I broke up with him several times before for the same and only reason , this one . but usually he would come to talk to me and tell me he loves me and I would get back to him but this time is different ..
when I sent him the broke up message he didn't say anything and then after 4 days he sent me few and really short texts but I didn't answer and 2 days latter he sent me pictures of places (irrelevant ) I was still mad at him so he knew it from my answers , he asked me if I found a new boyfriend I told him its not your business I guess, he said : it is ! I asked why , he didn't like my question .. he kept on texting me for 2 weeks ,in a row ,everyday and he would answer my messages right away (even when he was working , Because work was his excuse for not replying me) .. one day he told me he hit his head so I got worried and he knew it and when we were saying goodnights he sent me kisses and hearts but I just told him good night apparently you're loosing it ..he laughed and said : no not now.. the next day he didn't say anything.. after 5 days I texted him asking how he was going and all , we kinda flirted and again when were telling good nights he sent me I love you in my language (yes we don't speak the same language) so I asked what did you say ? he said : I don't know , anyway good night kissess )
and the day after he didn't send anything , I texted him but he didn't answer and it's been 3 days !and he know it makes me maaaaaad when he do it !
so why did he come to talk to me if he is going to do the same stupid thing all over again!
I still love him and it hurts when he does that !
PS: we met online , we live in different countries ,we didn't get to see each other face to face before and we only text (rarely call)
i need your help, thank you :)
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The better question is "What do you want from us?"
This is about as complicated as tying your shoe; the man is bad with texting, you don't like that, and you've had 7 unstable months with him. ... Okay? I didn't mean to sumarise your post in a sentence by the way.2
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