Alright, I'm pretty young at only 17 and I've been dating my boyfriend for around 2 years. There's this girl that for the last 2 months can't stop trying to pursue him by telling him how they're meant to be and how she's in love with him and how she'll do anything for him. A couple days ago, we ran into her at the mall and the things she said made me uncomfortable. While we drove back, my boyfriend noticed my lack of interest and how distracted I was. Eventually he asked me what was wrong and I told him that I was bothered and uncomfortable because the girl keeps on pursuing him and doesn't leave us alone. I told him I want her out of the picture. Of course, my boyfriend never responded when she did try to pursue him but it still made me uneasy. So, yesterday I walked to his house, notcied the door was open, walked right in and noticed him and the girl having sex. I walked right out and he followed me with a robe on, trying to talk to me but I was upset. He said he was doing this for me, because I said I wanted her to leave us alone and she agreed she would if she just had one date and sex with my boyfriend. I was still angry, I didn't want her to bother us but I definitely didn't want that either.. do I have a right to be mad? Or, should I just let it go?
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He was doing this for you? Ugh...no, I'm not buying that AT ALL! That's crazy! How can he cheat on you with this obsessive girl and then say "baby, I did this for us!" Yea. Sure ya did.
I highly doubt that this girl is going to leave your boyfriend alone now that she has had a piece of him. I can't believe your boyfriend would be dumb enough to believe this and to actually act on it. If anything, the girl is now going to go around thinking all high and mighty of herself because she was able to 'steal' your man from you. Or she will become even more obsessed with completely winning him over.
You absolutely have a right to be angry. He cheated on you. I would be livid.
Break up with him. Don't let this behavior go. He never should have ever thought this would be okay with you. Any logical person would see how bad of an idea this was.
No excuses, break up with him. Don't let him pull any wool over your eyes.