I have seen this girl 6 dates in almost 2 months. I just don't know what to do. She works a job from1 to 10 pm and I only can see her either fri or sat. I ask her about me coming by for an hour or so after she works. She tells me she is too cranky and tired.
What I don't get is she keeps wanting to go on dates with me, but she hides her feelings for now. She likes me I know. Any one ever been with a girl and she would tell you when its OK to finally kiss her? I have kissed her cheek many many times. After last date she did kiss me on the cheek. Which I guess is progress. If I text her, she would take forever to reply. Always saying she is busy.
Should I just stop texting and see If she contacts me? We are gonna do a 7th date, but in 13 days. Should I just find some one else and stop putting so much time on her. ?
I get really confused is to how interested she is. She does work a stressful job. I do feel like she is getting more comfy with me. She tells my she is conservative and when I asked about what if I fell I asleep on your couch she would say never. Its not proper. lol what
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Maybe she hides her feelings because she's not sure about yours? So she feels she's either coming on too soon or you'll think she's too much. She agrees to go on dates with you and they don't get cancelled, which is a good/neutral sign. If she didn't like you, she wasn't gonna spend time on you. When she says she's cranky and tired after work, believe it or not, that's not always an excuse.
I suggest you don't text her for a day or two and see if she initiates contact. I'm usually not a fan of "rules of dating" or "how to text your crush", but I wouldn't like it if I had to initiate texts and contact all the time, it's nice that the other person lets you know they're thinking about you once in a while.
Maybe it's time you have a talk about things, how you feel about her and this and that. Though I know it's hard for that to do, but I don't really know how else you can know if she's into you. Some girls (including me) do their best to hide their feelings the minute they realize they're into a guy, and sometimes that makes the guy think she's not interested.0
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