My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. About a month ago he started acting weird just more distant because he's pretty much flunking out of school, and I understand that he needs to focus on that. I tried to talk to him about the fact that we don't need to hangout all the time, but it would be nice to text every couple of days and catch up. He didn't respond. I waited four days and texted him again saying am I still your girlfriend? and all he texted back was I don't know. Then I said well maybe you should focus on the things you need to focus on? what do you think? and he still hasn't answered. I am assuming were broken up. But I can't believe he just dropped me like that. How can I get him back? I care about him a lot and just want the best for him would that be bad to text him? Help me:( my heart is breaking. I want him to know I care about him.
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let's see he's flunking out of school (didn't school just start a week or two ago?) and rather than talk to you he is just putting up the wall. when you aska are you still together he says "i don't know". gotta be honest he doesn't sound like the biggest winner.
i'd frankly stop chasing him. send him a note saying I konw times are tough. I just want you to konw that I'm here for you and love you no matter what.0