My boyfriend and I have been dating for over one year now. He used to text, call, email me all of the time. Now he does it less.
For example, every morning that I don't stay with him, he would wake up and send me a sweet text saying good morning. This week, nothing and when I texted him during lunchtime to say "how's your day baby" he responded immediately with "good. just ate lunch" and nothing to follow. Really? And before, when I didn't sleep over at his place before he would tell me that he missed me last night. This week when I told him I was busy and couldn't sleep over, he said "whatever, do your thing." It's making me a bit upset that he is not putting in the effort he once did.
What should I do to make him not so comfortable?
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It's normal for people to be less effusive after they have been together for some time. Don't let this bother you. I'm sure you aren't as attentive as you were at the beginning of your relationship with him, either. I mean, it's been years since my wife made me breakfast in bed!
Being comfortable is one of the nice things about a LTR; why do you want to take that away?0