I have a crush on a girl in college. I think she secretly likes me too. We went out for a movie once; I called it an "outing" instead of a "date", but I think she knows what I feel about her.
Now problem is, since school started I found myself too busy to ask her out anymore. She also turned down my request to study together, so she might also think school > dating.
I don't want to give her up, so I think I will still ask her out, but only during school holidays. Which are ... 6 months apart. In the meantime, we can still keep in contact with each other weekly via Facebook.
What do you guys think? Is this relationship doomed? Or is it doable in the long term?
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If you're too busy and she turned you down than she's most likely too busy as well. It's college after all, and it takes a lot of work and time. Just let her go because if you're both too busy, you'll be hurting more in the long run. Trust me, I've been in a relationship where he was too busy for me and we had big dreams together and we ended up splitting it off and that was 6 months ago and it still hurts.1