i know he likes me a lot and I like him too. every time we hang out though (especially if we've been fooling around), he gets very distant and we don't text for a couple/few days. When I just break and finally text him, he is not so enthusiastic to talk. After a few days, I guess FINALLY he misses me and can't stop texting and trying to talk to me ?! like wtf.
We saw each other last night, made plans for Saturday, and HE even told me (before I left the car), that "he will get in touch with me soon'. Like Okay?
Maybe he wants space and freedom after a girl date? maybe he needs to collect himselfff?1 I'm confused guysss :)
It's impossible he's using me (we go very slow). We've been dating since around May.
I am beginning to think that I want a guy more eager to be with me and talk to me. Maybe he doesn't like me so much, but his actions show differently when we're together. Plus, he;s going slow with me cause he knows I'm inexperienced and a dumb virgin..Lol.
so help me pleaseeee Should I just move on because I want someone more anxious to spend time with me? ...Someone who wants less space ?
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sounds pretty clear to me that he just isn't all that into the relationship. he could be shopping around, he could just not be very good about commitment, he could simply not want a commited relationship.
it seems to me that no guy who REALLY likes a girl and would want to be with them would perpetuate this behavior for going on 5months.
I think if you want something different you should clearly communicate that wtih him. find out what he wants OR just move on but it seems evident that this isn't a guy who is going to commit or really give you what you want1
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