Tell me is it possible to be faithful for someone you only get to see every couple of years? Well I am with a guy and I am aware that he is married and has 3 kids in another country. I didn't expect it to get far but we have been seeing each other for 6 months. He has told me about how he felt for me. I have feelings for him too.
- Should I stay with him and hopes that he chooses meVote A
- Should I dump him because I have no future with this guyVote B
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Who is being faithful to who? You to him or him to you? If he is married and has three children, it seems unlikely that you are with someone who is faithful. He was not faithful to his wife, and if you are not with him full time, he is not likely being faithful to you.
The real question is why do you feel the need to hold on to him? it sounds like it was an affair, and it might happen again; no problem. Call it what it is, enjoy it for what it is, but don't close your mind to other relationships that can be more rewarding and fulfilling. Be prepared to offer more of your heart to someone who has more to offer you.