And if he's serious about you guys being together, does he usually talk to his friends about you?
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You could ask, but in the end it's about what he does rather than what he says. When you say serious, what does that mean to you?
A lot of people try to categorize relationships rather than just enjoying them at whatever level they are or trying to change them to something they want.
Are you satisfied with your current interactions? If so, great. If not, you might want to let him know what you need from him in a way that's positive.
Sort of a "I really like you, and I hope you feel the same" kind of thing.
Be prepared that his image of your relationship might not be the same as yours. That's either going to be acceptable or not. You won't be able to force him to feel more or less than he does. Wouldn't be good to try anyway. :-)0