I really like this girl at high school, and I know she likes me back because she told me(unless if she is BS-ing).
I think she is usually really shy when she is with me, because she doesn't look at me that much, except sometimes she stares at me in the eyes with sparkly eyes and a shy smile. But we sometimes hug (she only hugs me, not even with her guy best friend). So I think she likes hugging.
Yesterday, on the way home from a field trip, I asked her if I can hold hands with her, she told me "Maybe some other time, because I'm sleepy". Makes sense, because we came back to South High late during midnight. But that wasn't really a rejection right?
One time, she said that her mom would kill her if she kissed a guy. But her friend told me that she is teasing me to make me wanna kiss her more. So I guess I'll have to make a move if I have a chance.
Last but not least, do girls love cuddling? How do I start the cuddling?
PS: We cannot date, her parents are strict about it.
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So many things can play a part in her not being as affectionate as you would like. I think you need to be more patient. Even though you may want to be affectionate sometimes as a man you have to put your needs second. It could be that in her family maybe there is not a lot of affection shown. It could be cultural. She might have religious values you are not aware of. I say get to know who she is first without putting your hands on her. From personal experience there is nothing worse than a man who is trying to touch me or pressure me into even the smallest sort of affection if I didn't want it. My ex did that and I gave in to some things, but I lost respect for him completely. Him not showing me that he respected my feelings and wishes made me view him as disgusting. Control yourself and get to know her personality. Maybe if you focus more on asking her questions and get to know what goes on in her mind and life she will feel more comfortable with you as a friend. As women we want to feel genuinely cared about and cherished. We want to know that a man puts us first in life.
Also respect her parents. Maybe if you show them that you can respect them then in the future when she is allowed to date they might view you as a suitable candidate.0