So lately I've been dating and talking to this guy who is 28 and I am 21, in the beginning we were both sceptial towards one another because of the 7 year gap and after our first date , he changed his mind and was interessted and asked me out again , but he went on vacation for a week and today we were going on our second, for 2-3 weeks we talked everyday and night and we connected good bond.
Last night I met him, he came over to my place and I live in a dorm..i was a bit embaressed because of it but what the heck I took a chanced and opened up..and it went great we cuddled, kissed and watched a movie and he seemed into me.. than today he writes me a long message on Facebook telling me how he had a long drive home last night where he thought about things and that the age difference does bother him and I feel he sort of panicked ..and got cold feet...but we were suppose to go on a date today to the movies and he booked the tickets on Monday so I very hurt..that he suddently doesn't want to date me..
he said he does have feelings but that he things we are in different places in our lives , he wants a wife , kid...
and I got mad and said well why didn't you let me go earlier,.
i said I can't be friends with him so I will deleted him but he didn't want me to..cause he wasn't sure yet and wanted to wait and see but I'm done waiting for someone.. so he said he won't deleted me and I had to deleted him if that was the case..and he needed to go to the gym to think about things
so I wrote him basically saying , I'm not going to sit around and wait and I liked him and thought we could figure things out but appearnly we can't , wish you a well life.. and he didn't reply to it
does he even care..why would he say this now..
did he panick? I'm so hurt :(
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its weird that he cuddled and was really loving to you then all of a sudden he changed his mind? You said you opened up to him. Did you say or ask anything to scare him off? Because I think something was said that night that made him change his mind.0