Been dating a guy for 2 months, 1st date, 2nd date, 3rd date...and so on. 6 date comes, he takes me to dinner at his house with his parents and his son. After dinner, he comes to my house and we had sex. Next date, I invite him to my house, cooked dinner for him, had a wonderful time in jacuzzi, and had sex. Then comes the conversation, which I started...may I call you my boyfriend, I said? He says yes. Next day, I get the the cold shoulder from him...Whats up with that? We are not kids anymore, we are grown adults, and each are very independent people. I guess men never change.
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before you jump to conclusions, talk to him. see what he says. then move on if it is not fruitful.
als, keep in mind. because you have had negative experiences with men, doesn't mean his bad behavior is male centric. he could just be a jerk. plenty of women suck too. ull be selling yourself short to resign yourself to the idea all guys suck and that's all you can expect from a relationship. not to mention its not fair to all the guys who are decent. additionally, you don't want to be in the habit of making ostensibly objective observations by way of anecdote.
He may not be ready for a relationship, and should not have agreed. this isn't everyone. its just him. plenty of people are capable of starting a relationship after two months.
Dont waste your time with him, if he's not interested. If he changes his mind in the future you can consider it, but don't pass up other people or alter your life for him. Not out of revenge. just a matter of practicality. he seems to not know where his head isat. unless of course he just got scared or sick or who knows.