It seems on this site, commonly women are all upset that "guys want models with big boobs" or "guys want skinny girls only" etc and so forth.
It just seems that online, there's a lot of upset girls who don't like men's preferences in looks, and they say that men are shallow for not asking out overweight girls, not dating girls who aren't cute, etc.
Do girls really feel all angst about whether they're good enough for men's tastes/if men are shallow and want prettier women?
Which makes one wonder why they get upset, then. Such as--I wouldn't care what gay men find hot, because I'm not gay. I would care what a cute girl finds hot.
Yet some women get so upset as they claim they don't care what men like.
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Of course people want their partner or whatever to look good. Nobody wants to date someone who is ugly. I think men and women have the right to fantasize of a good looking person, that doesn't mean that they will eventually get that person.
To be fair, you can't see the other person's personality based on their looks. And not every ugly guy or girl is beautiful on the inside. Not everyone is beautiful.
I know it sounds harsh but that's reality. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think that when a woman/man matures their preferences change too. But the initial attraction is based on the looks because as I said, you can't "see" someone's personality.2