Hey guys I'm really confused here. So in June I met a girl at work and I asked her out on a date. After a few dates I went to the emergency room because I needed a brain tumor removed. So I basically stopped talking to everyone for about a month. Then after visiting my job I saw her and talked to her but she was just cold towards me and I offered her a ride home. She told me she was waiting for a ride from a supervisor and she acted very cold so I figured she didn't like me anymore. I continued to text her but she flat out stopped responding. A few months later a bunch of rumors spread that she was sleeping with the supervisor and it was a big deal because that's illegal. I got really mad and frankly wouldn't really talk to her that much. Now that I'm back to work I told her I missed her and it was good to see her and she said the same. But now I try texting her and she never responds. So two days ago I confronted her and asked her why she was mad and she told me that she was offended that I wouldn't talk to her. I apologized and explained that there was a lot going on in my life because I did 8 weeks of radiation and I'm on chemo right now. She said sorry and I asked her if I could text her and she said yes. But now that I sent her another text she still hasn't responded. I'm confused because I thought we were mutually attracted to each other and I've rejected other girls in the hopes that we might start a relationship again. Any advice would help
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First, I hope things are going well with you medically speaking!
There's no easy way of saying it, but this girl is a flat out idiot. Doesn't matter how well you two get along or how hot she is, she's a huge waste of time if she can't understand that a brain tumor takes precedence over staying in contact with her after just a few dates. All that tells me is that she's incredibly selfish. Stay completely away from this girl! I would run the other way, I'm telling you this girl is not worth it at all. There are much better girls out there. Plus I'm pretty sure those rumors are true.2