I just turned 29 years old last month. I am in graduate school and will be graduating in the summer of 2014. My program is very demanding and I am now in the practice portion which takes up much of my time. It's pretty much like a full time job without any pay. I also have a small business which brings in SOME income, but not enough for me to live on my own. I CAN live on my own, but it just wouldn't be smart as I'd be relying strictly on my unpredictable small business. And even though I live at home, I'm not mooching off of my parents I still take care of my own bills,expenses, groceries and etc. I happen to have a luxury car that was a gift from my uncle TEN YEARS AGO and with the reactions I get, I still feel somewhat "judged" because I have this car and live at home.
Of course as woman I would like a man to have his stuff together, but I feel like me living at home is somewhat contradictory of what I want in a partner (if that makes sense). I have been on dates and the guys lived on their own and nothing came of it. One of them indirectly insulted me for it and I never heard from him again. I'm insecure about it to a point where I now just automatically turn guys down who ask me out just to avoid telling them I live at home and possibly getting rejected. So, guys who live on their own and have their stuff together, would it turn you off if you dated a woman who still lived at home? How should I go about dating again instead of being insecure about this?
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If you're 29, you should be almost done with grad school and ready to start reaping the benefits of that investment...as long as it was in a field where you'll be able to command a nice income. Get to that, get settled into it and start on a nest egg. Once you're established, start worrying about finding a guy friend. It would suck to stop pushing after three decades of prep work just to chase a guy.0