Comments are welcome! So how likely do you think it will be that you will marry your first boyfriend and give him your first kiss on your wedding day? Just asking as I know of a situation that I'm not sure will turn out like this and wanted to know the possibility.
- Very likelyVote A
- Not likely at allVote B
- It's somewhat possibleVote C
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Back when I was in 9th grade and a super Christian or whatever I decided that even kissing before marriage was bad. I even asked if that was right or not to the speaker in front of everyone at a youth group retreat. Of course many people were in shock and a friend [whom I once had a crush on] debated that with me sometime afterwards.
I later changed my mind about that a few months later, but I had mostly held on to the fairy tale that my crush at the time was the guy whom I was gonna marry...even if he didn't feel the same way about me which it almost always turned out that he didn't.
Now I'm a bit different. Though I didn't even get the opportunity to have my first kiss until I was 20, I have ended up kissing like 10 guys since then [less than a year later.] I do regret most of them because I ended being attached to them especially because of the kissing while they weren't that attached to me, if at all. Sometimes I've decided to only kiss a guy if I'm officially going out with him but I've always broken that rule by being caught up in the moment and fooling myself into thinking that I will eventually go out with that guy. I've also still haven't been in a serious relationship.
So my point is...the possibility is very slim. It's rare for anyone to think like that at all times and not give in to temptation, let alone 2 people who think like that and want to marry each other. But it's still possible.1