Well the other day he said he had a "special date" planned. That date turned out to be him showing me an apartment he bought, yes BOUGHT, for "us".
We've known each other for almost a year but didn't start dating until 3 months ago, so I'm kinda of speechless
I mean I'm crazy about him. Right now.
He's from a wealthy family so maybe he doesn't realize that for most people, it's a huge financial commitment. If we break up, I'd be homeless. I can't really talk to him about that. I kinda suggested something like that once and he was already hurt about me thinking of a life after him. I don't know how else to bring it up though or what to do?
On the other hand I'm really really in love with him. Also we live in NYC and it's an amazing apartment. Although even thinking makes me feel like a hooker. One that doesn't do sex, because we didn't do it yet.
Is that maybe an ulterior motive? More Intimacy? It's admittingly kind of hard between college dorm rooms and his parents place.
Well tomorrow would be the last day I could get my money for college accommodation so I need decide quick. Should I
a) politely decline
b) just do it
c) do it and pay for college housing anyways as back up?
If the last option, should I tell him about that?
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How old are you guys? If you're still in college or not in college yet I assume you're a bit too young in my opinion and I need to tell you this from personal experience... I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and when we were together for 3 months it was like we were both walking on clouds. We didn't know what hit us. Reality strikes much quicker when you guys start living together and get to know eachother on a whole other level. As for the intimacy, its sort of obvious that it will lead to you two having sex, it's nothing wrong it's just obvious in my opinion since you'd be living together. No matter how in love you believe you are now, even considering you guys were never actually intimate with each other it still seems as though you're in that beginning phase of the relationship where you're infatuated with each other. Believe me it gets much harder and if I were you I would enjoy this cute lovey dovey mysterious like phase now cause in a few years if you're still together you're gonna miss it cause relationships get tough. I think it would be more ideal to live close to each other if needs be or maybe start living with him but keep a back up place where you can stay cause you really don't want to end up on the streets if it doesn't work out well. I'm not saying it won't but you get to know a lot more about a person once you start living with him! Think it true and reflect.0