So here is the deal I have been friends with the same girl for years now it has gotten to the point that when ever we have time off we usually spend it together even if it means just hanging around the house or running errands. Anyway last summer a friend of hers set her up on a date and after a few dates the guy pretty much told her he just wanted to be friends then left our town. and for the entire time since the she has been hung up on him. However during that time we have gone out to a lot of functions including events at our church where people thought we were dating and there was no correction made same when older people would comment at stores and stuff. and even though she is hung up on him she talks about us moving in together
I know in some peoples eyes I may be taking the cowards way out by not telling her how I feel but its not that at all. I would just rather keep things the way they are and not know then be wrong and possibly lose her, plus this ways she is doing hat seems will make her happy
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I would suggest you created the context to ask her out officially. Because that "fear of losing her" is nothing compared to the day she'll leave you after finding someone else, if you don't man up a bit. Even more if you might move in together.
Better to know where you stand, even if you fail, than waiting forever and then having regrets for the rest of your life. That's the choice of maturity.
So try to make things a bit more romantic between you two and see where it goes. You know her well, she knows you well, so at least you won't have any interrogations, and either you'll be together, or you'll both move on with your lives.0