whats I like to hug a girl? they look so soft and smooth and heartwarming, I wish I could experience things like that, and what are kisses like, its only stuff I dream about along with other stuff about girls
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It depends on the girl! Usually girls have pretty cool skin actually. We generally do feel softer and smoother, but the emotion you get from hugs is mostly dependent on the personality of the girl. If the girl is cold on the inside or towards you, it will feel stiff, forced, or awkward. If the girl is nice, she won't be afraid to hug you fairly assertively, and those are the nicest hugs.
If I may ask - why don't you think you can experience these things for yourself? I believe that anyone can do (pretty much) anything if they are persistent enough. I've met quite a few wonderful guys who somehow believe that they are unworthy to receive love, even if they don't articulate it in so many words. They spend all their time wishing, dreaming, and internally criticizing themselves for being unloveable.
In reality, every single one of these guys can make himself loveable if he reallllllllllllyyy wanted to be...and some of them turn their lives around after realizing this! The key is to start with becoming content. Don't always worry about being happy or finding a girlfriend, or achieving in general. You'd be amazed at how little in life you actually need to be content.
When you decide to be content no matter what, you will actually find yourself to be much happier than you expect. You will be more easy-going, more confident in your own skin, more playful, more interested in helping others than yourself, more humble, and more grateful for every life experience you receive (even the less pleasant ones). All of these things are the small character traits that TRULY attract girls.
Contrary to what most people and dating sites tell you, having the right hair, clothes, and acting confident is not enough to really attract a girl to you. Those are external things. Repolishing an old piece of furniture isn't going to cut it! You have to heal yourself from the inside out. You have to shake the foundations of your very personality, face your fears, fight your shortcomings, and raise your expectations for yourself.
When you have higher expectations for yourself , you will achieve more - even if you do not achieve all that you expected of yourself! When you start to realize that you are improving, you will stop resenting the work it takes to improve and instead be motivated wholly by the rush you get when you realize that you're a better person than the day before. It's like working out! As you start to see your muscles show, all you want to do is keep working at it! As you realize you are getting smarter, all you will want to do is read more.
Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
Girls are not angels, nor are they demons. They are human beings with admirable qualities and detestable ones too. They are your equals. Don't be afraid of them :) They can only hurt you if you allow yourself to be hurt. They will not solve all your problems (only you can do that!), but they will make your life nicer. Get to know yourself and then girls!
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